Slow Dating

Do you prefer slow dating where relationships happen at a natural pace?

In age of technology and digital information, we tend to take things at a somewhat rapid pace. If you go to a website and are not entertained by what is there in 10 seconds, you leave. We have twitter to instantly update on trivial issues with 140 characters instantly and facebook status updates to tell the world what you had for lunch.

So where in this hyper-world do you find slow dating? The museum? The art gallery? The fruit and veg section in the local supermarket?

If you prefer not to comment on a women's melons while out food shopping, then why not try slow dating online?

Now you might be thinking, why use the very technology that gave us such a fast paced society to achieve the very opposite? This is because, in reality, you are in control of the information flow online.

Take this dating site for example. Click SEARCH to start browsing our 23000* profiles. You can select the type of woman you want to date even before you send her a hello email. Prefer blondes to brunettes? Want someone with a degree aged 25 to 30? No problems – just enter your preferred criteria.

Once you have found some interesting women to talk to, you need to make contact. Some prefer old fashioned emails. Some will prefer video contact. And there are even women that you can meet for the first time while taking a relaxing holiday. But regardless of what medium you choose, you are completely in control of the process. If you just want to exchange emails and get to know each other very well without worrying what you look like on a webcam for a few months, then relax and take your time.

Now if you think that my response is a bit left of centre, then think about what you will go through if you try and meet someone in a bar or club next Friday night. The place will be busy and noisy. You have to make a good first impression with so many background distractions. Get past the opening hurdle and it is a race to get her phone number so you can call her. Fail at that in the next hour or so and all of that effort is wasted. There is none of that pressure online. No loud background music so she can't hear you. No better looking men standing on the other side of the bar trying to catch her eye. Honestly, which do you prefer? Slow dating or the regular crash and burn of the bar scene?

So what do you do next?

First, check out our profiles to see if anyone catches your eye. You can run a search by clicking HERE:

http://www.hotrussian.net/search.html

Browse through the profiles that match your partner preferences. Find someone you are interested and you want to see the hidden details on? Just set up a free account – it takes a few minutes to enter in the basic details (you can add more detail to it later as well as a photo if you want to). I would suggest setting up a brand new email address for this. This way, all of your dating emails are kept separate from your day to day emails and that email from that stunning brunette does not get missed if it falls into your spam folder.

Good luck with your search!

*accurate at time of writing but subject to change as women join and leave the service.

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