Online Dating Emails – 3 Tips To Boost Your Reply Rate

Being able to write interesting dating emails to a pretty Russian woman is the key to virtual dating. But what do you do if you are not getting too many replies? In just about all cases, the amount of emails you get back depends on the quality of emails you send out. Consider writing a good letter as an investment of your time and your return is the number of young Russian women interested in you.

To help you get started (and get more replies), here are 3 tips as suggested by our Russian matchmaker for writing dating emails -

Rule 1: Keep Your First Few Emails Short. But not too short.

Put yourself in a Russian woman's shoes for a moment. You have worked all day and come home. You check your emails and there are 10 sitting in your inbox. You are tired but you do find the emails you sent interesting. You can read English but you do need a dictionary on some words (about once every sentence). Just reading one email takes about 5 minutes. All 10 take just under an hour. To write a reply as long as your email will take probably half an hour or more. And that is just one email.

Try and stand out from the crowd and write a few interesting paragraphs about yourself. But don't overwhelm her with too much in one go. Use your emails to excite and entice. These emails should be a hook – leave here wanting to read more. If you write a couple of pages, try cutting it down to about 3 paragraphs. If you just write a few lines introducing yourself, let her know a bit more about you.

Start slow, compliment her, ask her questions and let her show you she is interested in you.

Rule 2: Be A Gentleman.

Russian women may be attractive and even show off their bodies in their photos, but that is not an invitation to be forceful or vulgar. This is an immediate turn off for a Russian woman and she wont even bother to finish reading your email. In some cases, she may even complain which would lead to having your account banned in the worst instance.

Be respectful. This is a woman you may end up marrying. Treat her like you would want other people to treat your wife.

Don’t share too much information about yourself too soon, Think of how movies are promoted: your emails should be trailers designed to tease the audience into finding out more.

Rule 3: Under-promise. Over-deliver.

This is a marketing line. Well, more of a mantra if you are in sales. The way to make any customer happy is to under-promise what you can do and then over-deliver. Not only will they be ecstatic with your service, they will rush to tell their friends about you.

When writing about yourself, it is useful to learn this selling tip. Your introductory letter is really an advertisement about yourself. Is your letter a dodgy infomercial you might see at 3 am on tv? If it is, then it's time to rewrite your letter. Don't over hype yourself. We all do it at some point. We like to market ourselves but resist the urge to lie about your age, post ten year old pictures of yourself or embellish what you do for a living.

Talk about yourself openly. Don’t be ashamed of who you are.

So what do you do next?

First, check out our profiles to see if anyone catches your eye. You can run a search by clicking HERE:

http://www.hotrussian.net/search.html

Browse through the profiles that match your partner preferences. Find someone you are interested and you want to see the hidden details on? Just set up a free account – it takes a few minutes to enter in the basic details (you can add more detail to it later as well as a photo if you want to). I would suggest setting up a brand new email address for this. This way, all of your dating emails are kept separate from your day to day emails and that email from that stunning brunette does not get missed if it falls into your spam folder.

Good luck with your search!