Nice Russian Girls – How To Get Their Attention

What's the difference between nice Russian girls and American woman you meet in a local bar? Nice Russian girls ares hotter, in better shape and won't reject you as quickly. She might be in your country for work as a model or just a nanny, but her looks are going to attract attention.

How is she different from women you are use to? Take a look at the profiles of any woman on this dating site and you will see comments such as 'I am looking for an honest, loving, generous, tender and attractive man'. Nice Russian girls want to be romanced and are brought up with the knight in shining armour ideals. Try to pick her up like the local trailer trash and you will get shot down very quickly.

Women are women all around the world and they all want to be pursued to some degree. Russian women just have loftier ideals when it comes to love. It is easy to be the charming, witty man she is looking for by being able to hold an interesting conversation when you first meet. But if the thought of talking to a beautiful women makes you break out into a cold sweat, then try some tips -

It is easy to start a conversation with a beautiful woman, just say hi if you don't know what else to say. But if you are going to have any chance at all of getting past that opening greeting, then you are going to have to know how to have an interesting conversation. The most important tip I can offer you here is to remember is that a conversation has 2 sides.

If you speak without listening, you are lecturing.

If you speak and listen and ignore what is being said back to you, then you are arguing.

If you speak and listen with interest what is being said back to you, then you are having a conversation.

The first two will get you nowhere when trying to meet women. Just remember that your ears outnumber your mouth 2:1. It is a useful thought to keep in mind if you continually crash and burn with women.

The point I am trying to get at is a conversation is 2 sided. Women love to talk so don't feel pressured to fill all of the conversation space. If a women shows that she is interested when you say hello (and not all women will – it is a numbers game), then keep the conversation going with open ended questions.

What is an open ended question? It is a question that can not be answered with a yes or no. If you walk into a store and the sales person asks if you would like some help, what do you normally say? No. Or if you feel embarrassed about such a short answer, you can say 'no thanks, I am just looking'. If it is only if you are REALLY interested and came in for something specific will you give a specific answer. The salesperson asked a closed ended question.

Now what happens if they say “hi, welcome to xxxx … we have some great specials on today, what are you looking for'. You can still shut down the conversation if you are not interested (just like a woman can shut down a conversation with you if she is not interested or busy) but you might give a more detailed answer such as 'I am just checking out your specials'. You have not given a confirmed no, so you are one step further down the sales path. The same rules apply in talking to a woman. Ask a question to show interest and avoid the dead ends.

In the dating scene, this is called playing some verbal tennis. Every time she says something, add to it and then hit the conversation back to her with a question. It takes practice to make this feel effortless, so put some effort into it with a friend. Sit down and start a game where you ask a question. The other person answers the question and then asks a related question. You have to come up with the answer and new questions quickly – the first person who can't come up with a new question loses.

Now here is a little interesting bit. Own a company or a manager at work? This is also a great way to foster communication in the workplace. Not only can you use it to create a better workplace, but you can take part in your own team building exercise to improve your dating game.

So what do you do next?

First, check out our profiles to see if anyone catches your eye. You can run a search by clicking HERE:

http://www.hotrussian.net/search.html

Browse through the profiles that match your partner preferences. Find someone you are interested and you want to see the hidden details on? Just set up a free account – it takes a few minutes to enter in the basic details (you can add more detail to it later as well as a photo if you want to). I would suggest setting up a brand new email address for this. This way, all of your dating emails are kept separate from your day to day emails and that email from that stunning brunette does not get missed if it falls into your spam folder.

Good luck with your search!