Dating A Hot Russian Woman – 3 Conversation Topics To Avoid

Dating a hot Russian woman has so many advantages. Yes, she may live thousands of miles away but this is quickly outweighed by the positives. The long toned legs, the inviting smile, the innocent eyes and the intelligent mind. All these factors fit together to make a perfect wife.

Now the average western man might not be accustomed to this, especially in 'super size me' America. So it is not unusual for a man new to dating Russian women to start blurting out the wrong things. To avoid foot in mouth syndrome, here are 3 great tips -

Don't Talk About Ex's – Ever!

Yes … I understand. Your ex-wife is the bitch from hell. She got the house, the kids, the dog and just about everything else. But don't bad mouth her to your new girlfriend – it shows that you respect women. But just to confuse you, the opposite is not true. If you have close female friends or ex-girlfriends or wives that are still good friends, don't talk about them either. The last thing she wants to hear is how much time you enjoy spending with other women.

The best way to avoid disaster is avoid the topic all together. If she asks you in your first couple of emails, give a respectful neutral answer. You could use “I am a social person and enjoy spending time with my friends” or “I have 2 beautiful children from my previous marriage – family is very important to me”. Highlight the positives, not the baggage.

How Many Men Is She Talking To?

A Russian dating site is a forum for men and women to get to know each other. Look at profiles on any site – how many women do you find attractive and want to get to know better? 10? 20? I am going to guess it is certainly more than 1.

Now put the shoe on the other foot. If you are attracted to 10 women and send 10 emails, then it is likely that those women would also receive at least 10 emails from other men just like you. You may be the perfect match for her, but she will take her time in getting to know those men who made the effort to write to her. She will eventually cull those she does not feel a connection with until she is left with just one contact – you.

For some men, this process can drive them crazy. But be careful here – jealousy is a relationship killer. It is not as though she is chatting to men behind your back. You know exactly what is going on. The key is not to pester her about it. Let it happen in her own time. If you come across as possessive at this stage, you are the one she will cull.

How Expensive Long Distance Dating Is

You have to remember that Russia is not America. The language is different. The landscape is different. And so is the culture. Part of understanding her culture is understanding how she might interpret what you say. For example, if you tell her that flights to Moscow are expensive, you are saying that it will take you a few months before you can save for it. What she will hear though is that you can't afford it – ever.

Cash is still heavily used in Russia. Even the concept of getting a home loan has only gained popularity in the last 3 or 4 years. Previously they bought their homes with a suitcase load of cash. So the idea of using credit to buy everything is completely foreign to her. Your new girlfriend was brought up with a mindset that 'expensive' meant that you would never be able to pay cash for it. Tell her that flights are expensive and she will think you are not going to visit her and not serious about a relationship.

The key here is not to say something is expensive. If you have to save for 3 to 6 months before you could afford to go, simply say you have other obligations until you are ready.

So what do you do next?

First, check out our profiles to see if anyone catches your eye. You can run a search by clicking HERE:

http://www.hotrussian.net/search.html

Browse through the profiles that match your partner preferences. Find someone you are interested and you want to see the hidden details on? Just set up a free account – it takes a few minutes to enter in the basic details (you can add more detail to it later as well as a photo if you want to). I would suggest setting up a brand new email address for this. This way, all of your dating emails are kept separate from your day to day emails and that email from that stunning brunette does not get missed if it falls into your spam folder.

Good luck with your search!

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