A Quick Summary -Be Yourself | Be Confident | Learn Something About Russia | Keep Your Letters Easy To Read | Be Flexible
Are you looking for a hot Russian woman as your wife or girlfriend? Here is your chance to shine! The countries of the former Soviet Union have thousands of women interested in men just like you.
Now you don't have to be George Clooney or Brad Pitt to attract a hot Russian woman. An average man by American standards will attract a beautiful woman. If you are an average 5 out of 10, then expect to attract a woman who is at least a 7. Rate yourself as an above average 7 or 8? Then expect to attract a hot Russian girl :)
Being yourself … that is the easy bit. You have to remember though that you will be talking to women from not just a different country, but a different culture. To help you get past the first email onto the second and third, here are 5 quick tips for dating a hot Russian woman.
I did say this is the easy bit, so I will talk about it first. Think about how a date in your home town would go … you make the first date and meet up at a restaurant for a nice meal. You can talk to her, make her laugh and have a good time.
The keyboard is a bit more impersonal – there is no eye contact, body language or flirting. Your first contact is going to start out as a simple email. There are a couple of important tips here – be yourself and describe yourself in detail.
Be yourself – be truthful. A relationship is built on trust. If you are an accounts clerk, don't tell her your a bank manager. Women are very good at picking up lies. If you think you can get away with it, then you need therapy.
Describe yourself – in detail. If you write a letter that says … Hi, I am Bob and would like to get to know you … then 5% of your emails will get a reply. And of the women who do reply, probably 1% of those will email back a second time. Take the time to tell her about yourself. Sit down and write 400 or 500 words … its not that hard. Put in a little bit of effort and you will stand up above the crowd.
Form letters – if you write a long letter for your first lady, then you might be tempted to use bits for your second lady (you might write to a few women from a site before you find your hot Russian bride). Be cautious here. If a paragraph has 5 sentences, then it is okay to have 3 generic statements. But the other two should be about her. What did you just talk about that you share in common? The best way to get her attention is to to talk to her, not at her.
All women look for a man who displays confidence. No, you don't have to be the athletic alpha male, but you should be a reliable decision maker. Most Russian women still have traditional role values – as the man in the family you need to step up and make the decisions. Just remember not to be arrogant. Confidence is good – being a pig is not.
3. Learn Something About Russia
Take interest in your lady by taking interest in her culture. Learn about where she is from. Learn some basic Russian words and how to say the alphabet. Its not that hard with a bit of practice if you buy a Russian English translator.
Don't be put off by this. Just being able to say 20 words in Russian will have a positive effect. She will appreciate the effort. A great place to start is RussianPod (check out the link below to see the Russian language program with more than 60 million downloads).
4. Keep Your Letters Easy To Read
The first thing to remember when writing your first letter is that Russians speak Russian. Most educated Russian women can speak and read some English, but they often need the use of a dictionary to read a full letter. If it takes you 5 minutes to read a letter, then it might take them 10 or 15.
Make it easy for her by not using slang. Keep your sentences short and easy to read. Imagine you are trying to explain something about yourself to your grandmother. This is called the Granny test. If your grandmother can understand what you are writing about, so can she.
Time to talk about a bit of reality. For every 5 women you email, only 1 or 2 might reply. Of those, half will send a second email. The second and third email is what you are looking for – this shows she is genuinely interested in getting to know you. I call it the 3rd email test.
Attracting your hot Russian woman and getting to the third email is a numbers game. Keep your options open. Thousands of beautiful Russian and Ukrainian women are in our network. Don't get discouraged if the Russian lady you're especially taken with does not respond. Start with letters to 2 or 3 women at a time. Is there mutual interest? If not, then move on to other profiles.
So what do you do next?
First, check out our profiles to see if anyone catches your eye. You can run a search by clicking HERE:
http://www.hotrussian.net/search.html
Browse through the profiles that match your partner preferences. Find someone you are interested and you want to see the hidden details on? Just set up a free account – it takes a few minutes to enter in the basic details (you can add more detail to it later as well as a photo if you want to). I would suggest setting up a brand new email address for this. This way, all of your dating emails are kept separate from your day to day emails and that email from that stunning brunette does not get missed if it falls into your spam folder.
Good luck with your search!
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